Lisa
DeLaby is Director of the Office of Institutional Advancement and Butte College
Foundation, but the Oroville resident is also a mother of five.
Amidst
the joys of family life loss and grief can come without warning, and parents
must decide how best to comfort young children. Books can play a significant
role in helping kids verbalize their loss and direct their imagination more
positively.
“My
Grandma Angel” ($17.99 in paperback from AuthorHouse; also for Amazon Kindle)
by Lisa Rhoads DeLaby, illustrated by Dan Drewes, is a tender story based on
LeLaby’s own experience. Told by a young girl, it begins in tears.
“My
grandma died suddenly,” she says on the first page. “I didn’t even get a chance
to say good-bye. She wasn’t sick, so I don’t know why she had to die and go to
heaven.”
Then,
“When I cried and told my mom I missed my grandma, she said it’s normal to feel
really sad and cry when we lose someone we love. Mom gave me a big bear hug,
squeezing me almost as hard as Grandma used to. It made me feel much better.”
Memories
rush in, cooking and going to the movies.
There
is something more. “The truth is, my grandma can now do things that she never
could before. That’s because now she’s a special angel. I like to call her my
Grandma Angel. My Grandma Angel can visit me in my dreams, now that she is in
heaven.” And “she has all sorts of special powers.”
That
cooling breeze? “That’s my Grandma Angel fanning me with one of her wings.”
Rainbows are her way of saying hello. “During the day, I bet my grandma is
doing good things to help others. She could be on a spy mission, saving the
planet from harm, helping the Tooth Fairy, or sewing in Santa’s workshop with
the elves.”
It’s
the stuff of dreams, and in those dreams “Grandma and I can travel together anywhere….”
“I’m happy that my Grandma Angel will always be in my heart and my dreams.” A
series of questions on the last page asks about the reader’s own special angel.
Is
that a smile I see?