Books
for getting organized continue to find an audience, and I’ve read many of them
myself (though just where those books are I haven’t a clue). For Tokyo-based
Marie Kondo, much of the advice those books offer is misplaced. Instead of
focusing on cleaning room by room, and inducing guilt if you keep something,
she has created the “KonMari method.”
On
the heels of her bestseller, “The Life-Changing Magic Of Tidying Up,” Kondo’s
new book is really an encyclopedia of how to handle the various categories of
stuff in one’s life, from how to fold turtlenecks and what to do with old
greeting cards and stuffed toys, to “storing books attractively” and “putting
memories of past lovers in order.”
“Spark
Joy: An Illustrated Master Class On The Art Of Organizing And Tidying Up”
($18.99 in hardcover from Ten Speed Press; also for Amazon Kindle) begins with
the six rules of tidying.
First,
be committed; then imagine the kind of life you want to live (so tidying has a
goal); “finish discarding first” (otherwise you won’t know how much room you’ll
need); tidy by category, not room; follow the right order: clothes first, then
books, papers, komono (miscellaneous
stuff) and sentimental items; and, finally, “ask yourself if it sparks joy.”
That
last is the key. Touch each item, “holding it firmly in both hands as if
communing with it. Pay close attention to how your body responds when you do
this. When something sparks joy, you should feel a little thrill, as if the
cells in your body are slowly rising. … Remember that you are not choosing what
to discard but rather what to keep.”
Even
that lowly screwdriver in your junk drawer can spark joy once you recall all
the scrapes it’s gotten you out of.
Tidying
up is very different from cleaning. “Tidying,” Kondo writes, “is the act of
confronting yourself; cleaning is the act of confronting nature. … You could
say that tidying orders the mind while cleaning purifies it.” Tidy first—go on
a tidying marathon, she suggests—and where you live will spark joy. Then keep
it clean.
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